For an insightful and sensitive podcast about inclusion by Kathern Burke (Executive Director, Learning Disabilities Association of Alberta, Canada) and parent of children with special needs, download the podcast from http://www.blogtalkradio.com/specialneedstalkradio/2011/09/09/inclusive-classroom. Below is Inclusion: Why Can’t We Be Friends?, a post that she let us reprint.

 Why Can’t We Be Friends?

Guest Post by Kathryn Burke

Executive Director

Learning Disabilities Association of Alberta

Alberta, Canada

Some memories are so vivid it almost seems like a DVD is being played in your brain when they are being recalled. The memory I want to share is like that for me – so vivid I am still able to recall everything from the smell of the room to the buzz of the fluorescent lights.

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Parents often complain that teachers and IEP Teams won’t make the changes needed to help their child. Learning consultants, reading specialists, school psychologists, and other members of IEP Teams often voice similar complaints: teachers resist change; they refuse to implement “really great ideas.”

Complaining about resistance does little to improve the situation. Demanding change often backfires. Believing that “I alone know what change is needed” often smacks of arrogance. Understanding why teachers and IEP Teams resist—and looking for rational reasons—may help you, your child, his teachers, and his IEP Team.

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From Reading & Other Learning Disabilities

A Blog by Dr. Gary G. Brannigan and Dr. Howard Margolis

If you’re a parent of a child in special education, you have to ensure that his Individualized Education Program (IEP) meets all his educational needs. Ideally, you’ll work cooperatively with the school people on his IEP Team to develop his IEP. But what if you disagree with them or believe they don’t care about helping your child? If you’re like some parents, you’ll anger quickly; in intense emotional outbursts, you might let them know they “don’t know anything,” “don’t give a damn,” “will sacrifice children to save money.”

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From Reading & Other Learning Disabilities

A Blog by Dr. Gary G. Brannigan and Dr. Howard Margolis

Justifiably, many parents complain that school personnel make them defensive, especially at program planning meetings, such as Individualized Education Program (IEP) meetings. Some school personnel make similar complaints about parents. No matter who’s at fault, defensiveness can destroy the possibility of developing programs that meet children’s needs. It stymies progress by fostering misunderstanding, distrust, secrecy, resentment, and contempt. Cooperation is one of its first victims.

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Why Can’t We Be Friends?

Guest Post by Kathryn Burke

Executive Director

Learning Disabilities Association of Alberta

Alberta, Canada

Some memories are so vivid it almost seems like a DVD is being played in your brain when they are being recalled. The memory I want to share is like that for me – so vivid I am still able to recall everything from the smell of the room to the buzz of the fluorescent lights.

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